July 5

0 comments

What’s the distance between you and all you want?

By Marion Nixon

July 5, 2023


Today I was reminded of this:
The distance between you and all the wealth, health, and happiness you want is not years away. It’s the distance between your right and left ear. (Blair Singer)

Being able to step out of your head and recognise that your little voice, the inner critic, is not your voice, is the start of a new life! That inner voice sounds and feels like an integral part of you but is actually the collective voice of all the caretakers and authority figures of your childhood, and maybe early adulthood too. Its purpose is to protect you from repeating past ‘mistakes’ that were actually learning experiences even if they felt bad at the time.

The best way to deal with this inner voice is firstly to recognise that you don’t have to listen to it, and then secondly, because you can’t make it go away, to reprogramme it. Teach it to keep you safe by supporting and encouraging you instead of making you anxious or putting you down.

This sounds easy enough, however, you in turn need to support your inner voice by liking yourself! I find many people find it difficult to say good things about themselves to themselves. I recommend that every time you look in a mirror you say something nice to yourself – not about what you’re wearing, yourself! Try it. When you truly like yourself it will be easier to convince your inner voice to talk you up in difficult situations.   

Want help with the reprogramming? Give me a call and I’ll share a simple process you can use – no cost!

To misquote Robert Browning, How do you love yourself? Let yourself count the ways.

Marion Nixon

About the author

I love enabling women make their heart-dream real and supporting them as they grow in courage and confidence.

My desire to help others comes from my personal experience of breaking free from personal limiting beliefs into a new way of life. I’ve learnt how to clear the hidden inner resistance that holds you back from achieving your dreams and want to share that with you.

Leave a Repl​​​​​y

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked

{"email":"Email address invalid","url":"Website address invalid","required":"Required field missing"}

Never miss a good story!

 Subscribe to our newsletter to keep up with the latest trends!